Custody agreements are legal contracts—both parents have to follow them. But if your ex is blocking your visitation, ignoring the plan, or making decisions behind your back, it’s a violation of your rights as a father. At Reel Fathers Rights, we help dads enforce custody orders and stay connected to their kids.

Common Custody Agreement Violations

Your ex might be breaking the rules if they:

  • ❌ Block your scheduled time with your kids.
  • ❌ Skip agreed pick-ups or drop-offs.
  • ❌ Decide on school or doctor visits without you.
  • ❌ Trash-talk you to your child (aka parental alienation).
  • ❌ Hide updates about your kid’s life.

Even small slip-ups can pile up, hurting your bond with your child. Don’t let it slide.

Steps to Fight Custody Violations

Take control with these steps:

  1. Document Everything
    Build your case with:
  • 📅 Dates and times of missed visits.
  • 📩 Texts, emails, or voicemails showing interference.
  • 👀 Witnesses who saw it happen.
    Solid proof wins in court.
  1. Talk It Out (If You Can)
    Try a calm chat with your ex first—courts like when parents sort things out. But if they keep breaking the rules, move on.
  2. File to Enforce the Order
    Ask the court to step in. A judge could:
  • ⚖️ Force your ex to follow the plan.
  • 💰 Fine them for messing up.
  • 🕒 Give you extra time to make up for lost visits.
    Persistent issues? Push for bigger changes.
  1. Request a Custody Change
    If violations won’t stop, ask for more custody. Show:
  • 📂 Proof of repeated, deliberate violations.
  • 🏡 Why the current setup fails your kid.
  • ⚖️ How your plan offers stability.
  1. File for Contempt
    For serious breaches, hit them with a contempt motion. Possible outcomes:
  • 🚨 Fines or penalties.
  • 🚨 Parenting classes.
  • 🚨 Jail time (rare, but real).

What If Your Ex Points the Finger at You?

False accusations? Fight back:

  • 📁 Prove you’ve followed the rules—keep records.
  • 📞 Call a lawyer ASAP.
  • 📝 Suggest mediation to clear the air.

Reel Fathers Rights shields dads from baseless claims and keeps your rights intact.

Contact Reel Fathers Rights Today

Ex violating your custody deal? Act now. We serve fathers in Corona, Irvine, San Bernardino, San Diego, and Riverside, plus Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, San Bernardino, and San Diego Counties.

Click the link HERE to schedule your Consultation or call us 24/7 at 951-800-3390