Being served with a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) can be overwhelming and stressful. Whether the allegations are true or false, your response to a TRO can have long-lasting consequences on your legal rights—especially if you are involved in a child custody or divorce case. At Reel Fathers Rights, we understand how critical it is to take the right steps immediately to protect yourself.

Step 1: Read the TRO Carefully

When you are served with a TRO, it will include detailed information about:

  • The allegations made against you.
  • The restrictions you must follow (e.g., staying away from a person, their home, workplace, or school).
  • Any child custody or visitation orders (if applicable).
  • The court hearing date for a permanent restraining order.

Violating the terms of a TRO—even unintentionally—can result in criminal charges. Make sure you understand exactly what is required of you.

Step 2: Do Not Contact the Petitioner

One of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to reach out to the person who filed the TRO to “clear things up.” This is a bad idea and can be used against you in court. Even if the petitioner reaches out to you first, do not respond. Communication must go through your attorney.

Step 3: Gather Evidence and Witnesses

If the allegations against you are false or exaggerated, you will need evidence to defend yourself. Start collecting:

  • Texts, emails, or social media messages that show your interactions.
  • Witness statements from people who can support your side of the story.
  • Photos, videos, or security footage that prove your whereabouts or actions.
  • Phone records or GPS data if relevant to your defense.

Step 4: Hire an Experienced Attorney

A restraining order case is serious—especially if it involves false accusations that could impact your child custody rights. At Reel Fathers Rights, we specialize in defending fathers against unfair restraining orders and ensuring they are not used as a tactic to gain an advantage in family court.

An attorney can:

  • Review the allegations and develop a strong defense.
  • Represent you at the restraining order hearing.
  • Fight for fair child custody arrangements.
  • Prevent the TRO from becoming a permanent restraining order (which can last up to 5 years in California).

Step 5: Prepare for Your Court Hearing

The TRO will remain in effect until your court date, where a judge will decide whether to issue a permanent restraining order (PRO). To prepare:

  • Dress professionally and arrive on time.
  • Stick to the facts—do not get emotional or argumentative in court.
  • Present your evidence and witnesses to support your defense.
  • Let your attorney do the talking when necessary.

If the judge rules in your favor, the TRO will be lifted. If not, a permanent restraining order could be granted, which can have severe consequences for child custody, employment, and your legal record.

Final Thoughts: Take Action Immediately

A TRO is not something to take lightly. If you have been served, act quickly to protect your rights. At Reel Fathers Rights, we have helped countless fathers fight unfair restraining orders and regain control of their lives.

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