Going through a divorce is tough for any father. One of the first big decisions is whether to handle it yourself (a DIY divorce) or get help from a lawyer who understands fathers’ rights. While saving money with a DIY approach might sound good, it can lead to problems down the road – especially when you’re dealing with child custody, splitting what you own (asset division), and spousal support in California.
At Reel Fathers Rights, we focus on helping dads through divorce, custody fights, and money settlements. We want to make sure you’re treated fairly under California law.
What Exactly is a DIY Divorce?
A do-it-yourself divorce means you take care of all the legal paperwork, talks, and court filings without a lawyer. This usually works best when:
- You and your spouse agree on everything (who gets the kids, who pays support, how to split things).
- There aren’t many complicated things you own or owe.
- You both want the divorce and don’t expect to go to court.
However, if you disagree about the kids, money, or if things get complicated legally, it’s usually best to hire a lawyer.
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DIY Divorce: The Good and the Bad
The Upsides of Doing it Yourself:
- Lower Costs Up Front: You’ll mostly just pay court fees to file papers.
- Potentially Faster: If you both agree on everything, it can go quicker.
- You’re in Charge: You make all the decisions without someone else’s influence.
The Downsides of Going it Alone:
- Big Risk of Mistakes: Messing up paperwork can slow things down and cause bigger problems.
- You Might Not Know the Law: You could accidentally agree to unfair terms for child custody or money without realizing it.
- The Court Won’t Help with Legal Advice: Judges and court staff can explain the rules, but they can’t tell you what your rights are or how to protect them.
- Tougher Negotiations: If your ex has a lawyer, you might be at a disadvantage when trying to agree on things.
When You Really Need a Divorce Lawyer
A DIY divorce is probably not a good idea if:
- You and your spouse disagree about who the kids live with or when you see them (child custody and visitation).
- Your ex wants a lot of spousal support (alimony) or child support.
- You have significant things you own (like a house, investments, or a business).
- Your ex isn’t working with you or might be hiding things you own together.
Hiring a lawyer who focuses on fathers’ rights in divorce can help make sure you get fair child custody arrangements, protect your belongings, and avoid legal mistakes that could cost you a lot in the long run.
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If you’re thinking about divorce in California, it’s important to act now. At Reel Fathers Rights, we have offices in Corona, Irvine, San Bernardino, San Diego, and Riverside. We help dads across Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, San Bernardino, and San Diego Counties.
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